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Male-Identified/Masculine Spectrum / Designated Female at Birth (DFAB)

 

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Packing (soft)

There are 2 types of soft packers. One is made of a soft rubber called Cyberskin (Packy, Mr. Packy etc). Cyberskin is porous and needs to be powdered with cornstarch or it will get sticky and dirty. Then there is a silicone packer (Mr Right). It is a little heavier and stiffer than a cyberskin packer and more expensive, but it is much easier to care for (does not need cornstarch, durable). These are some good sites to find them.

(FYI these sites contain sexuality related products intended for 18+)

  • Early to Bed
  • TranZWear – many useful types of underwear, plus swim wear and work out gear all set up for packing ad affordable prices.

Rather than a harness or cock sock, you can also pack in your underwear. There are some boxer briefs that have pockets in them, like Sildenafil Online. You can also sew boxer brief’s flys shut, put a snap in the front, and put your pack in it. Trunks (aka boy shorts) are sometimes preferred because they hold the pack closer to your body. Or, rock out in your tightie whities.

 

Stand to Pee (STP)

CIalis Online s found at FTM Info.

Packing (hard)

Finding a hard packer that is right for you can be hard (no pun intended. and yes, I did just do that). One of the most important things is materials. Silicone is the best. It is easy to clean, non-porous, and you don’t have to worry about it being bad for your partner (there is some research saying softened rubber like cyberskin can lead to cancer). A couple good sites to visit for information are the Ativan Online at GoodVibes.com (excellent), the Ventolin Online at Blowfish.com, and Shopping Advice at Babeland.com. Needless to say, these sites all have more than packs in them, so enjoy all the goodies they have to offer. You will probably notice the high prices. You probably already know these things don’t come cheap. If you find what you want, but the price is a little high, Google the name to find the best price on it.

(FYI these sites contain sexuality related products intended for 18+)

  • Early 2 Bed – Women owned store based out of Chicago. Has good prices and products.
  • Valtrex Online –  Sex toy gallery that promotes and advocates the sexual well-being of all people. Based out of Chicago.
  • Smitten Kitten – These folks are pretty rad. It’s a great, sex positive site!
  • Good Vibes – A cool site with lots of stuff.
  • Vixen Creations – A good place for options. Everything is silicone, very high quality products.
  • Love Piece – Has trans-guy specific stuff, including swimwear.
  • Clonazepam Online – A little expensive, but has a lot of options.
  • Eden Fantasies – A neat site that has different stuff that you don’t usually find.
  • Babeland – A very popular site, has lots of options but can be expensive.
  • The FeelDoe – A ‘harnessless’ pack. It can be really expensive so shop around.
  • Phentermine Online – has both packers, hard and soft, and Stand to Pee (STP) – Look under “Gender Expression”

 

Harnesses

Harnesses are sold everywhere so just shop around. There are a few basic types/materials and each has it’s pros and cons. Think about what’s important to you and that will help you decide. If you want to wear your harness under clothes, obviously one with lots of buckles won’t work well. If you have sensitive skin, you may want to find a harness that will be skin-friendly. IMPORTANT: Read what size the “O ring” is to make sure it fits your pack. Many harnesses have removable rings so you can buy a different ring that will fit (also good if you have multiple packs). Uni-sex harnesses are usually very functional, inexpensive, and versatile in the type of pack they can accommodate. And, as mentioned above, the FeelDoe doesn’t need a harness at all.

Material

Avoid elastic. It stretches and makes the harness ineffective. Some harnesses come with a pad or backing, meaning not just a o-ring with nothing behind it. A pad protects your skin (no pinching or pulling) and more importantly, keeps your pack in place. With out a pad your pack can slide out the back of your harness (this also depends on the harness).

  • Leather
PROS: Reasonably easy to clean, comfortable, variety of shapes and sizes.
CONS: Expensive, Hot and sticky when you sweat, limited skin-to-skin contact with your partner, not animal-friendly.
  • Nylon
PROS: Affordable, mostly washable, animal-friendly.
CONS: Can be uncomfortable after long periods of time or if too tight, some have pads which are hard to wash.
  • Cloth (usually cut like shorts or underwear. Sometimes has nylon strapping attached)
PROS: They are generally comfortable and easy to take on and off, washable, animal-friendly.
CONS: Can be bulky, limited skin-to-skin contact with your partner, stretching can limit control.
  • Rubber
PROS: Easy to clean, usually comfortable, animal-friendly.
CONS: Hot, stretching can limit control, limited skin-to-skin contact with your partner.
  • Vinyl:
PROS: Easy to clean, usually comfortable, animal-friendly.
CONS: Hot, stretching can limit control, cheaper kinds are poorly made and uncomfortable.

Style and Control

First, what do I mean by control? To be candid, if you’re thrusting you don’t want your harness to move. A good harness makes it as if your pack is attached to you. That way you know you pack will go where you want it to. Having confidence in your harness will enable you to concentrate on what’s important, the sex you are having. (Duh.)

If they are not clothing-like, harness generally have either one strap in the back or two.

  • One strap:
Like a thong, and can stimulate the clitoris/anus. However, it doesn’t always work with packs that have balls. Also, one straps are generally not as adjustable and they don’t always come with pads.
  • Two straps:
Like a jock strap, with a strap around the back of each leg. This enables more control and the straps are adjustable (plus you won’t get a giant wedgie at the most inconvenient time). Two straps also allow more contact with your partner because the crotch is open.
  • Clothing harnesses:
Cut like underwear or shorts, usually comfortable and attractive, but vary on the amount of control they can provide. If the harness has straps around the back in addition to the cloth cut, it is likely to give you good control.

 Babeland.com has advice on harnesses along with pictures and examples. (FYI this site contains sexuality related products intended for 18+)

 

Female-Identified/ Feminine Spectrum / Designated Male at Birth (DMAB)

As you can see this section is very limited, but we are working on expanding it. In the meantime, we would love more input! Please send us your links, feedback, and recommendations!

  • TG Forum Store
  • The Breast Form Store
  • Michael Salem Boutique
  • Classic Curves
  • Becca’s 3700 Hair Studio -Hair, Wig Styling and Sales, Kettering, Ohio 45429 (Recommended!)
  • Sheer Necessities Lingerie -Wigs, Breastforms, Gaffs, Shoes & Lingerie, 201 West Benson, Reading, Ohio 45215 (513-761-7010)
  • Jade Wigs (owner’s name Son) – 103 W. 7, Downtown Cincinnati (513-621-4576)
  • Sun Wigs Co. – 614 Race St, Downtown Cincinnati (513-421-8993)
  • Josephine’s Post-Mastectomy – 9514 Kenwood Rd, Blue Ash (513-745-9501)

 

Sex Positive Porn Companies

Genderqueer-owned, friendly, and/or focused porn and feminist porn and sex toy resources. (FYI these sites contain sexuality related products intended for 18+)